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 A crushed wedding ring is displayed after a couple used a hammer to smash the ring to symbolise the end of their eight-year marriage during a "divorce ceremony" in Tokyo June 20, 2010, a day before the couple file for divorce. (Agencies) |
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With divorce on the rise in Japan, some couples are choosing to celebrate the end of an unhappy marriage by saying "I do" for a final time at a divorce ceremony before friends and family. Divorce ceremonies were pioneered about a year ago by a former salesman, Hiroki Terai, who set up a "divorce mansion" in a small undercover space in Tokyo. Since then about 25 couples have each paid 55,000 yen ($600) to hold a ceremony with all the pomp and grandeur of a wedding that publicly ends their relationship before they officially file for divorce. Terai said he had received more than 900 inquiries. The latest couple, who called themselves Mr and Mrs Fujii, met near Sensoji Temple in Tokyo's traditional Asakusa area on Sunday and rode in separate rickshaws to the divorce mansion. "By putting an end to our marriage, we wanted to give ourselves fresh starts and give our lives a sense of renewal," said Mr Fujii, a 33-year-old businessman. He said he felt responsible for the failure of his marriage as he spent too much time away from home and too much money on his various interests including cars - despite numerous warnings from his wife. Friends and family of the Fujii couple followed closely behind the rickshaws on foot, arriving at the divorce mansion for a ceremony where the Fujiis smashed their wedding ring with a gavel, a gesture signifying the end of their partnership. The gavel has a frog's head as frogs symbolize change in Japanese culture. "When we smashed the ring together, I felt like 'Oh, this is the end of it, really' and my heart and soul felt renewed. Now I feel I can have a new life and start all over again," said Mr Fujii. His wife of eight years also expressed relief. "The moment I saw the smashed ring, I said to myself, 'Yes! That feels so good'," Mrs Fujii said. Terai, who is believed to be Japan's first "divorce ceremony planner," came up with the idea to help couples celebrate their decision to separate after one of his friends went through a bitter divorce. Divorce is on the rise in Japan, where it was once taboo, with about 251,000 divorces taking place in 2008, partly blamed on the poor economy taking its toll on romance. (Read by Renee Haines. Renee Haines is a journalist at the China Daily Web site.) (Agencies) |
隨著日本離婚率的不斷上升，該國的一些夫婦選擇舉辦一種離婚典禮來與不幸的婚姻說再見，他們在家人和朋友的共同見證下最后說一次“我愿意”，慶祝不幸婚姻的結(jié)束。 離婚典禮服務(wù)大約于一年前在日本興起，當時一個曾做過銷售員的名叫寺井廣木的男子在東京一個隱蔽的小場所創(chuàng)立了一個“離婚公館”。 此后，寺井共為約25對夫婦舉辦了隆重程度堪比結(jié)婚典禮的離婚典禮，讓他們在正式申請離婚前公開結(jié)束婚姻關(guān)系。離婚典禮的收費為每對夫婦5.5萬日元（600美元）。據(jù)寺井介紹，至今他已收到900多人的詢問。 最近的一次離婚典禮于上周日舉行，當天一對自稱藤井的夫婦在東京老城區(qū)淺草區(qū)的淺草寺附近會合，之后各乘一輛人力車前往離婚公館。 33歲的藤井先生是一名商人，他說：“通過結(jié)束婚姻，我們想給自己一個新的開始，迎接新的生活?！?/p> 他說自己應(yīng)為婚姻失敗負責，他不顧妻子的多次警告，經(jīng)常不在家，為了滿足自己買汽車等各種興趣，花錢大手大腳。 藤井夫婦的家人和朋友緊跟著兩人乘坐的人力車步行前往離婚公館參加典禮。在典禮上，藤井夫婦用一個木槌將結(jié)婚戒指砸毀，宣告兩人關(guān)系的結(jié)束。 這把木槌上有一個青蛙頭雕飾，因為在日本文化中青蛙象征著改變。 藤井先生說：“當我們一起砸扁戒指時，我想‘哦，這下真的結(jié)束了’，那一刻我感覺自己的心靈和靈魂都獲得了新生。現(xiàn)在我覺得自己可以開始新的生活，一切可以重新開始了?！?/p> 與他結(jié)婚八年的藤井太太也表達了同樣的心情。 她說：“當我看到砸扁的戒指時，我對自己說，‘好！這感覺太好了’”。 寺井據(jù)說是日本離婚典禮服務(wù)的開創(chuàng)者，他從一個朋友的痛苦離婚經(jīng)歷中得到啟發(fā)，萌生為離婚人士提供慶典服務(wù)的創(chuàng)意。 離婚曾是日本社會的一大禁忌，而如今日本的離婚率卻不斷上升，2008年日本約有25.1萬對夫婦離婚，其中一部分原因是經(jīng)濟不景氣對婚姻造成了影響。 相關(guān)閱讀 （中國日報網(wǎng)英語點津 陳丹妮 編輯蔡姍姍） |
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Vocabulary: undercover: working or done secretly in order to find out information for the police, a government, etc. 秘密工作的；暗中做的；私下進行的 pomp: the impressive clothes, decorations, music, etc. and traditional customs that are part of an official occasion or ceremony 排場；氣派；盛況 grandeur: the quality of being great and impressive in appearance 宏偉；壯麗；堂皇 rickshaw: a small light vehicle with two wheels used in some Asian countries to carry passengers. The rickshaw is pulled by somebody walking or riding a bicycle. 人力車；黃包車 gavel: a small hammer used by a person in charge of a meeting or an auction, or by a judge in a court of law, in order to get people's attention （會議主席、拍賣商或法官用的）小槌 take its toll (on sb./sth.): to have a bad effect on somebody/something; to cause a lot of damage, etc. 產(chǎn)生惡果；造成重大損失 |
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